Heat is the main killer of auto transmission. The heat is caused mostly by the torque converter (fluid coupling). The other causes are the "friction" of the moving parts and application of clutches and bands. A proper working transmission will not slip in the gear it selected. It slips slightly during gear changes. So when you have the trans in gear and are pushing a huge pile of snow or backing up a steep drive and give the the engine gas and more gas (ie rpms very high before truck moves) the is the converter is trying to multiply torque to overcome the resistance. That's not the transmission slipping. Transmission fluid is very complex in its additives. Heat degrades the fluid and additives. This in turn causes the friction members in the trans not to grip properly (slipping) and then more heat is built up and then toast trans. I would install a transmission temp gauge to keep an eye on the fluid temp. Here's a trany fluid temp vs life chart.
Automatic transmission fluid will provide 100,000 miles of service before oxidation occurs under normal operating temperatures of about 170°F. Above normal operating temperatures, the oxidation rate doubles (useful life of fluid is cut in half) with each 20° increase in temperature.
The approximate life expectancy at various temperatures is as follows:
175°F 100,000 miles
195°F 50,000 miles
212°F 25,000 miles
235°F 12,000 miles
255°F 6,250 miles
275°F 3,000 miles
295°F 1,500 miles
315°F 750 miles
335°F 325 miles
355°F 160 miles
375°F 80 miles
390°F 40 miles
415°F Less than 30 minutes
This information clearly shows why transmission oil coolers and the various maintenance intervals are recommended for severe usage.
Above 300°F, the metals inside the transmission will warp and distort in varying degrees depending on the severity of overheat. Because this damage occurs and fluid life is so seriously impaired, rocking out of snow, mud or sand should never exceed a very few minutes.
I understand that people have gotten many thousands of miles and have had no problems. Most likely this is due to low fluid temps and operator of truck.
For me in my Chevy I plow mostly in low range (transfer case) and my trans temp is around 170F to 190F even on a 35F wet snow plowing. In the summer when I tow my TN70DA I have gotten up to 225F while towing in hilly terrain, but I'm also towing close to 14k lbs. When I change my engine oil I pull the plug on the trans pan. Take an even 3 qts to full mark. It only drains about 1/4 to 1/3 of the total fluid in the the system. But I have done this since day one and with 82k miles no problems. This truck is a work truck, is our main plow truck. In the summer it does heavy towing too.
Derek